Tuesday, August 27, 2024

Fall 2024 Homeschool Plan

We have been doing homeschool lite for most of August. I have added in one thing each week and we will fully start after Labor Day!

Note: I re-read all of Julie Bogart's Gracious Space books and Essentialism. Both of these inspired me during the planning process.

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Having a clear overarching intent enables us to check ourselves. We can regularly compare our activities or behaviors with our real intent. (Essentialism)

Overarching intent of our homeschool: Living thoughtfully and intelligently is our responsibility. Mental health requires physical health. Sleep, exercise, and spending time outdoors are equally important as book learning. We embrace complexity and think critically. There is always more to learn about ourselves, others, and the world. How we live matters. Lead by example. 

One of the best things about homeschooling is taking control of our time. I want to create balance. What is our best rhythm for sleeping, eating, exercise, study? Do we mostly abide by it even when tempted to do otherwise? If we falter in one area, how does it affect other areas? When you look at our schedule and count the hours we are doing "work" it is around 16 hours a week for everyone but Lela. When Taven quit school last year he said "mom I could do that in two hours a day." Yes, I know.

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Here is our fall schedule. The kids spend their early mornings differently. Some go to the gym, some sleep, some get a head start on their independent work. All I ask is that they have done their "skin care," fed themselves, and are ready for family time at 9:30. They all share a bathroom so this is still a work in progress.

Monday

9:30-11 Family Time 

11-12 Mirek and Lela - BW single and writing project

12-12:30 Mirek and mom (AAS/Honest History) 

12:30-1:30 Mom and Lela (AAR, AAS, math, Wild Earth)

                   Mirek independent (math and foreign language)

11-1:30 Taven, Naia, and Eaden independent work

Tuesday

9:30-11 Family Time (geography teatime every 3 or 4 weeks for country of study)

11-12 Mirek and Lela - BW single and writing project

12-12:30 Mirek and mom (AAS/Honest History) 

12:30-1:30 Mom and Lela (AAR, AAS, math, Wild Earth)

                   Mirek independent (math and foreign language)

11-1:30 Taven, Naia, and Eaden independent work

1:30-3 Brave Writer Boomerang with oldest three and writing project/Indigenous discussion, Mirek choice (Crash Course)

Wednesday

9:30-11 Family Time 

11-12 Mirek and Lela - BW single and writing project

12-12:30 Mirek and mom (AAS/Honest History) 

12:30-1:30 Mom and Lela (AAR, AAS, math, Wild Earth)

                   Mirek Independent (math and foreign language)

11-1:30 Taven, Naia, and Eaden independent work

Thursday 

Field trip related to aquatic study or country study/hygge day/Jesse Jones Journeyers

Eaden does Fridays independent work if dancing Friday AM or can do it when she gets home Friday.

Friday

Eaden dances early and gets home around 12:30 

9:30-10:30 Mirek and Lela - BW single and writing project

10:30-11 Mirek and mom (AAS/Honest History)

11-12 Lela and mom (AAR/AAS, math, Wild Earth)

11-1:30 Mirek math, foreign language, choice/Crash Course

9:30-12 Naia and Taven independent work

12-1:30 - Make up

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What is family time?

This is when we learn together. We will do this 3x per week. I have moved some furniture around so we can all fit comfortably in the living room without anyone touching or screaming "get your dogs off me!" I also have special coloring/activity books that can only be used during this time (mostly for Lela). We will have a country study that lasts 3 or 4 weeks (also learn about water in that country). I have chosen Korea first as Brother's Keeper is set in Korea, Mirek is obsessed with Taekwondo, and we have a large Korean community with plenty of restaurants and shops/grocery stores nearby. Also, we just learned that Mirek's demo team will be performing at Discovery Green for the Korean Festival in October! So that fits in perfectly. We will study aquatic science. We are using TPWD resources (free online). We will do Wordly Wise in cursive (our cursive practice). Everyone has the same list and we try to use the words throughout the week. When we are done learning about a country we will have geography teatime. We will prepare and eat food from the country, listen to music, create something, and have a freewrite. Maybe we will play a game. I don't know. I'm sure I will find plenty of ideas on Pinterest! It will be fun!

TPWD resources we will use

https://texasaquaticscience.org

https://tpwd.texas.gov/publications/pwdpubs/media/pwd_bk_k0700_1931_watershed_curriculum.pdf

What is independent study?

This is 4x per week. Math and a foreign language are required. We use Saxon for math with Nicole the Math Lady and primarily Duolingo and Transparent Language for language learning. We have various print resources for French and Spanish as well. The older three kids have two books assigned. One is history related (Indigenous Peoples' History of the US) and one is a Brave Writer pick (Brother's Keeper). There is a Boomerang guide they will do as well and we will go over and discuss on Tuesday afternoons. They should be underlining and writing questions comments in margins or in commonplace for Indigenous. They keep a literary journal for Brave Writer selections. Besides this, they can choose what they learn. Usually they pick from Crash Course. Eaden has chosen Forensic Science Coursera. Mirek also does math, foreign language, and chooses a course of study.

What do we do one on one or in small groups?

Lela and Mirek are dyslexic and it works well that they are paired for Brave Writer picks (Willodeen to start) and writing projects. Taven, Naia, and Eaden are paired for a separate Brave Writer pick and writing project. I work one on one with Lela for pretty much everything: math, All About Reading/Spelling, other various reading activities, and some science using Wild Earth. I work one on one with Mirek using All About Spelling and he reads Honest History (free online through library) aloud to me and we discuss. Writing projects are chosen from Brave Writer. Book parties will be had after each Brave Writer selection is complete.

What do we do on Thursday?

We have our Jones Journeyers class once or twice a month from 11:30-1. Everyone except Eaden is signed up for this class. Attendance is required and I was not sure if she would make all classes. The teacher did call me and say she is welcome to assist. We may go on a field trip related to our country or to a Texas State Park aquatic study site. I do want to go to the Museum of Fine Arts which is free on Thursdays. If we get a zoo membership, we may go there. We may chill, light candles, read, bake a seasonal dish, watch a seasonal movie or a movie set in our country of study. Maybe we watch a documentary related to Indigenous culture or aquatic science. Eaden does like to dance sometimes on Thursday mornings and may do so if she wants. 

Here is a description of Jones Journeyers. Lela will be with the younger group and I will stay with her.

A new learning series intended for youth ages 5-10 and 11-17 years.  As a journeyer, students will learn about environmental issues and, through project-based learning, work together to design solutions to those problems. This program is a dedicated series that will build knowledge and skills through hands-on learning and leadership.  By registering for the program, participants agree to attend all sessions, from September 5 through March 1, 2025.  All projects will be presented at Nature Fest on March 1, 2025.

Parents are required to attend for children 5-10 years old.  Children 11-17 years old can be dropped off.

Class schedule:

Sep 5:  Introductions

Nov 21:  Air Quality using Lichens

Sep 19: Watershed Model

Dec 5:  Plant Survey

Oct 3:  Weather

Jan 23: Wildlife Survey

Oct 17:  Water Quality - Macroinvertebrates

Feb 6:  Soil Structure

 

Feb 20: Work on Project

Nov 7:  Water Quality – Chemical Indicators

March 1:  Project Presentations at NatureFest

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The kids should know why we are doing what we do. Not just because I said so. 

Why write? Permanent record of your mind life. Do you have interesting thoughts, an inner life, what do you think, dream, imagine? What you have to say is worth preserving and presenting in a cogent (clear logical and convincing) manner. To pay attention, work out our thoughts, and order them. When we tell our story and experience we allow for greater empathy.

Why write in cursive? I know there have been studies as to why writing in cursive is beneficial, but it's useful to me because I can write more quickly and easily. Also, because I said so :)

Why read fiction? To see into the mind life of others. Empathy. Broadens our worldview. See possibilities of being human. To know ourselves better. Learn about other times and cultures. Escape.

Why read nonfiction? To learn about the world. Take part in the great conversation (ideas that began in ancient times and have continued to the present). Understand the range of human experience.  Develop critical thinking skills (the ability to evaluate information and to be aware of biases or assumptions, including our own). Deep reading and contemplation. 

Why keep a commonplace? Chronicle of our intellectual development. Reread often. 

Why learn about water? Vital to all life. Learn the importance of protecting it and conservation.

Why study math? Cooking, baking, shopping, budgeting, nutrition labels, finance, sports stats, measurement, building, technology, travel planning (bus and train schedules, gas, maps and distance, etc.). Will need more advanced math if you plan to attend college.

Why study indigenous history and culture? To center them and their perspective. To gain wisdom for a sustainable future. To practice critical thinking. Because most history studies focus on Europeans and their descendants. In our homeschool, we have centered black history (Oh Freedom) and "people's history" (Zinn). I feel like we have discussed how Europeans treated Indigenous people but we have not learned much about Indigenous people themselves. We have learned about their struggle but not their survival and resurgence. 

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Goals for myself

Plan a few things well. Be consistent.

Document what we are doing in a scrapbook. Print pictures.

Read and learn the material beforehand so that you can convey material with knowledge and enthusiasm and not keep returning to the guide (science).

"We do our children a disservice to think we can teach them by opting out of the hard work of engaging with them. True partnership and dialogue go more slowly, but so much more richly." - Bogart

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My daily rhythm (Mon-Fri)

Early morning Gym/Coffee and books (take care of yourself before others)

Family Time

Independent/One on One/small group work

Drive to activities/Chores for kids

Dinner/Clean

Pick up from activities

Bed

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My weekly rhythm

Right now I think Taven will be playing primarily with JV. He is referred to as a "bubble player." He gets to play the entire game and they need him. That would mean Thursday games and he can still go to TSM on Fridays. He will play with Varsity when JV isn't playing and may travel with them.

M morning read with ambience and coffee, homeschool, Tomball Sports/run and pt

T gym, homeschool

W morning read with ambience and coffee, homeschool, Tomball Sports/run and pt

Th gym, field trip day (Jesse Jones, aquatic study site, country related, hygge/seasonal day), football game

F morning read with ambience and coffee, homeschool, Tomball sports/run and pt

S grocery/clean/prep for the next week

Su Rest

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Camping trips/out of town/random

I think we will have to travel with varsity to Florida for the homeschool football championship. If we do, there is a good campground near the beach around Pensacola we might hit up on the way home. I want to go to Palmetto State Park as well at some point and kayak more. 

We are traveling to Oklahoma for football and I am definitely going to look into places to take the kids related to our Indigenous studies. 

Trader's Village and Alabama Coushatta pow wow (was in January last year)

Christmas "school" all December. I will decide at that point if we should continue with Indigenous and aquatic studies and will plan for after New Year.

I would like to get a zoo membership, but prices have really gone up. I have a friend that will split costs though. I'm not sure Lela even remembers the zoo. It has been years since we went. 

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What comes next?

Eaden plans on starting Personal Training Certification in March when she turns 18. Until then, she is looking for a job but it is proving difficult. She has applied to numerous Kroger openings, HEB, Chick-fil-A, (all the places I would think might hire a minor) and no one is even asking for an interview. I am guessing they prefer workers to be 18, but I don't know. She has been hired to teach a dance class every Monday night at a local studio. So that's a start! She wants to travel and has been looking at train ticket costs and Eurail and passports and all of that. Of course she still wants to dance in L.A....

After our aquatic study, I am looking into various issues. Media literacy (mensa) and Manufacturing Consent (Chomsky). I want to talk about debt and living on minimum wage. Consumerism and not letting our creativity and identity be expressed through our choice of purchases. How much do we need to live comfortably and reach our goals? I want to talk about different countries and social policy. How taxes are used and what public/social services are provided and to whom. Future assigned reading: Hypercapitalism, A People's History of American Empire, The Nordic Theory of Everything (good compare and contrast). 

I am waiting for the book Anxious Generation and am positive I will want to discuss it with the kids.

I am not sure how long it will take us to get through our Brave Writer picks and Boomerangs. I am guessing we will finish two or three by December. I have other possibilities picked out when we need them. 

Future Brave Writer (Lela and Mirek) and Wild Earth (Lela only) picks 

The Very, Very Far North and Arctic unit

The Girl Who Stole an Elephant and Mammals

Heartwood Hotel and Forest Ecology

Maybe Maybe Marisol Rainey or Wishtree and Trees

Odder and Food Webs

Solimar and Pollination

The Turtle of Oman and Reptiles

Future Brave Writer picks (Taven, Naia, and Eaden)

Fountains of Silence 

A Long Way Home (true story and movie)

American Born Chinese (graphic novel)

Angel of Greenwood

Disability Visibility (nonfiction essays)

Our Town (play)

The Shape of Thunder

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I quickly created a treasure hunt for Lela. It led to her new activity book.


Some cookies Naia made.





Our Olympic medals for our family Olympic games.








Do you see the squirrel laying flat? Moose does! Squirrels often do this to cool off.



We had spaghetti, salad, gizzard hot pepper soup, skillet corn bread, and cupcakes for Ade's birthday!





Sunday, May 12, 2024

Go, Go, Go and Summer Plans

I had planned for this week to be my one week summer reset: clean the house, plan, prep/gather resources, eat healthy, move, wash and brush Lela and Naia's hair, etc.. 

It didn't happen.

I ate healthy and got to the gym/went on walks a few times (while I wait for Eaden to dance). I cleaned my sister's house and got the kids to all of their activities. Eaden also passed her driver's test. However, I have yet to get to the hair or my own house. Our washer broke to the point it wasn't worth fixing and Eaden's phone is not working (which she needs if driving). She received an iphone from a mom for helping her daughter with dance. Unfortunately, iphones are much harder to work on than androids. So those are two pressing issues that I need to deal with while also finding about twelve hours or so for hair today and tomorrow. 

Some backstory...

A few months ago, we had squirrels getting into our house through rotting soffit which led to us starting a lawsuit with Allstate. While waiting for that process we put chicken wire around all of the holes (everywhere and high up). Then, maybe a month ago, the AC started freezing up and dripping water. I brought the hose into the house and sprayed two cans of coil cleaner while it all poured on my face ( I had to crawl into a small space and spray up lol) and I scrubbed/sprayed the coils. It started working... Then with the power outage and surges our hot water heater stopped working. My dad brought over his voltage tester and we were able to determine that the control board was bad. We ordered a new one and my dad replaced it (I may have blown up the house). Also, our trees need to be trimmed badly but we can't do that right now. Our yard is a mess with limbs. Both of our vans need to be worked on before we drive to Atlanta later in June...Whah!!! Thanks for listening :)

I tell myself do one thing at a time and say no/cancel plans. Eaden is having to miss dance today so we can find a washing machine. I made her move one downtown dance to Soreal on Wednesday. Sometimes I have to tell Mirek no to Friday Taekwondo. Taven really can't miss his baseball workouts with the homeschool team because we are on scholarship and they asked us not to miss. The football workouts are optional right now so we can definitely miss those. Wildcatter baseball he also has to go.

Anyway, I am trying to get past this point of broken shit so I can chill for a bit. Once that happens, here is our summer plan.

This summer: 4x a week, 1x documentary/movie day with popcorn

7-9 YMCA

9-11 math, reading, foreign language

11-12 Self care/talk about hypercapitalism, retail therapy, influencers, etc.

12-1 Creative

Here are some ideas for what we might do in the 12-1 hour (and after if they so choose).

Arts and Crafts

Science kits

Dolls/pretend

Baking/cooking

Coloring/drawing

Board games/trivia

Swimming at the Y/Grandma's

Bubbles, water, sidewalk chalk

Make a fort

Make ice cream

Puzzles

Play dough

Friendship bracelets

Grow plants from seed and take care

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My driving schedule

MWF- Taven workout 2-3:30 Tomball Sports Medicine (homeschool baseball)/get groceries for week while he is there

MTh Taven Speed and Agility (football) 6:15-7:30

W Taven Wildcatter baseball 7-9

MTh Mirek Taekwondo 4:30-8:30

F Mirek Taekwondo 6-8

S Mirek Taekwondo 11-12, Taven Wildcatter baseball approx 9-11

Eaden has a lot of dance and will drive herself soon...

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I would like to keep our YMCA time the same only because it keeps the kids on a sleeping schedule and they complain when it's crowded and all the machines are taken. Lately, Taven will stay up late playing video games and face timing his friends and then say he wants to go to the gym later in the day. However, if Eaden and I still go early, that's an extra trip to the gym. It's crap like that I try to avoid. 

I do not want the kids on screens all day, obviously, but I want them to have autonomy. If I am in constant control, they will never become responsible. Too many rules and doing everything for your kids will backfire. Sometimes, it takes a while for them to realize what is best for them, but that time and practice making decisions is needed. I will focus on discussing (and hopefully modeling) self care, but ultimately, they will be in charge of themselves after 1pm. 

I like this graphic I found on Pinterest.

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I really want to read a lot of fiction this summer. Here is my list for now.

The Alice Network, The Frozen River, The Women, The Lost Bookshop, Parable of the Sower, Cloud Cuckoo Land, The Echo of Old Books, North Woods, Growing Goats and Girls, The Heaven and Earth Grocery Store, Tom Lake, The Wishing Game

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These photos are a few weeks old but they are the last ones I took on my camera.












Wednesday, April 10, 2024

Balancing Imbalance

I recently finished reading Braiding Sweetgrass and The Seven Circles: Indigenous Teaching for Living Well

Key ideas from Braiding Sweetgrass:

"We need to restore honor to the way we live." 

"How can we shape our lives in such a way that the land might be grateful for us?" 

"Philosophers call this state of isolation and disconnection 'species loneliness'- a deep, unnamed sadness stemming from separation from the rest of Creation, from the loss of relationship." 

We have no relationship with the land. In many cases, our parents never had a relationship either and therefore no one taught us how we are connected. We take, take, take, and never give. We go to school, we work, we consume. We stay indoors. It has not been this way long in the grand scheme of things but it has been this way long enough. There are few left to pass on knowledge. We never had what we are missing. The blind are leading the blind and our values are all shit. 

What does having a relationship with the land mean? To me, it means learning about the plants and animals in my area and understanding how we all depend on each other. Growing food, not only to understand the process and feed myself, but also to know the time involved. How slow the process is. We need to get on that time. Respect, love, and care for the land where we are. Live with it. We all need each other. We cannot only take in this relationship. We must give. 

I clearly remember feeling lost. I knew I wanted to live differently. I went on a solo camping trip to Big Bend National Park when I was twenty. I hiked and backpacked but I also spent a lot of time reading. I was reading The Legacy of Luna by Julia Butterfly Hill. A connection to the land is what I was missing. It gives life meaning. It makes us feel as if we are a part of something. Part of a whole. Besides the reading, time to sit with my own thoughts and my own common sense (trust it!) was key. I had no cell phone or social media back then, but I was a part of consumer culture. I was being constantly advertised to. It takes a lot of work and effort to break from that and to really think for oneself. Imagine how hard it is now in the digital age? How do we think original thoughts? We absolutely have to slow down, learn about and become a steward of the land, and share our knowledge. Surround ourselves with people from different backgrounds and cultures. Listen to them. Have courage to be different from the mainstream. We do not want to be like those around us. They've got living all wrong.

In Big Bend, I got mad because no one taught me about life in a meaningful way. What was all this time in school for? I was angry that my teachers passed on nothing of importance. My anger turned to shock when I realized the teachers were lost as well. This is a massive problem. That is what I mean when I say it has been this way long enough. Who is going to teach us how to return to the land? How to take care of ourselves and the plants and animals and Earth so that future generations can survive and thrive? I would later have one teacher my senior year of college that would help me. But I had to ask him. I asked him for books to read and he gave me a list. I was mind blown. Again though, this wasn't in a class. I had to look for it. I was lucky. Most people never know to look for anything. It doesn't help that everyone is locked inside a building cut off from all that is important. School protects the status quo and the status quo is not what we want. We need better, way better. 

Key ideas from The Seven Circles:

"Because of an imposed sedentary, indoor culture, we face more illness and more depression, and we feel disconnected from the natural world. We need to consciously reconnect. And one we do, we feel immediate healing benefits that the land provides. We need to watch [plant and animal nations] and listen, because right now, humans are different. We are taking too much."

"When we view nature as separate or 'other' place, off in the distance being preserved by a government entity within a neatly delineated boundary, we support the idea that anything outside of that boundary is somehow not nature and therefore is less valuable or worthy of care or preservation. This sets the stage for constant, aggressive, and perhaps even thoughtless urban development."

I get so frustrated how every little pocket of trees is being cut down. They keep building massive apartment complexes or office buildings that surely must remain mostly empty. Everyone around here is living on the street. Pushing shopping carts around full of others' discarded trash so they can sell it to buy a little more meth. Do we need another gas station on this corner when there are two across the street? Why can't we leave this alone for the plants and animals? Why???? We need the land around us. Stop digging it up and cutting it down and pouring cement over it. It's so frustrating for me and I feel helpless. I recently started looking for ways to volunteer to restore the land. Thankfully, the opportunities are numerous! I cannot wait to get started.

"What we do to the Earth, we do to ourselves."

Go anywhere in Houston and look around. Do we seem mostly mentally and physically healthy? No. It is painfully obvious. We are not a healthy society. 

"Balance is not a perfect state of being that one achieves. It requires a constant returning to... Imbalance will always be part of a balanced life."

I used to want perfection, expect too much of myself, become overwhelmed, and give up. Recognizing that small steps and a slow process are fine and good and "wins" has been eye opening. Plant one thing and take care of it. Get to the gym one day per week. Go outside for a walk once a week. Drink 32 oz of water instead of 64 oz. It seemed like this wasn't enough, but I was building habits. On days when I had a lot to do, maybe the kids had a million places to be, I would forget who I was (slow down!). However, after doing these small things for so long, I now remember. It is me now. I don't have to think about it. I have changed. I still may fail on some days to have complete mastery over myself (according to my standards), but I return to balance the next day. I do not go off the rails completely. Also, I doubt I fail in ways that seem like failing to others. I may eat another bowl of stir fry or have a 3rd beer. It's not that serious. I don't go on shopping sprees with credit cards or smoke crack. In my younger years, those small instances where I lacked willpower would have derailed me for weeks. Now I know balance.

"With every generation we must become more connected to the land... than the generation before. It starts with us, here and now. "

I feel defeated when I think about the lack of knowledge in 99.9% of the population. I feel like I cannot even have a conversation with them. They have no clue. What do we do with this? All I can think is to make sure my kids are not one of them. Let them listen. Let them think. Let them hear all viewpoints and search out the knowledge of other cultures. I have to focus on a smaller scale and feel that success. Focus on my family and my immediate community. Live it into reality. 

"We choose to believe, with every fiber of our being, that there will be a time when the land heals, when reconnection takes place, when reciprocity reemerges, and when holistic ways of knowing become the hallmark of human life once again."

"This can be known as the era when things begin to heal again."

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Spring is here!






We invited Grandma to go with us to Mercer Arboretum and Pundt Park. It was perfect weather.












There were gars in the water which caused much excitement. Taven wanted to cross the creek but kept getting scared. I told him it's fun, like Jumanji. He said "yeah but they had three lives. I only have one."






The following photos are from the park where my son has baseball practice on Saturday mornings. I very much enjoy my time there, but not getting there. I have a real issue with all of the driving I do. This last week was particularly bad as we are helping out my niece Carly with her dental hygiene classes. The drive is an hour and 15 minutes each way. I drove out there twice. Then I have all of my regular driving to activities that I do. I am trying to use the time to meditate or relax but unfortunately driving itself gives me anxiety. Especially on freeways and in traffic. I am happy to say that this Sunday I am not leaving the house!!! Hip Hip!!! Hip Hip!! Hip Hip Hooray!!!










My morning hike behind the YMCA in 100 Acre Wood.


Dewberry breakfast.






Fall 2024 Homeschool Plan

We have been doing homeschool lite for most of August. I have added in one thing each week and we will fully start after Labor Day! Note: I ...